We all understand the importance of resilience, empathy and managing stress when working with young people who present challenges to us using their behaviour. When the behaviour is directed towards us, we have the skills to cope and keep our work life separate from our home life, but when our personal life is affected, it becomes particularly stressful. Vicky has coped with this difficult situation in a professional and committed way and not allowed it to impact on the relationship she has. Congratulations Vicky. We all acknowledge how difficult this situation must be for you but applaud you for the way you have dealt with it.